Gee Bloody Men

[sweetjewels]

So my husband was going through my phone last week and notice that I still text my ex boyfriend and he gets up me for it, but its ok that he's allowed to talk to he's ex girlfriend via msn text and they have rang each other but Im not allowed to talk to my ex talk abt one rule for him and a different one for me.

[Blueberry]

Awww...tell him how you feel! Tell him that it is not fair.

My ex was like that.He would always talk to women online,but when I talked to other men he got really jealous and would make an issue out of it.He was okay with me talking to other women (I am bi),but not men.Yet he was allowed to talk to women and if I said anything about it,he called me jealous.I wasn't the jealous one,as I didn't mind him talking to other chics.My issue was the fact that he was allowed,but I wasn't.It was not fair,so I totally understand where your coming from.

[missheili]

i know exactly how you feel jewels!!! I am in the same sort of situation as you know except mine is alot worse lol!!

[hexyewdancer]

Men always make rules for themselves and ones for other people. Tell him how you feel about it all.

[sami]

Aww hun, you need to talk to him about it.

Sorry I have posted this in the wrong Place could it be moved to Gee bloody men.

[Fiona]

I think it's all about communication - that fact that he wasn't already aware of this and then found it on your phone. I guess he thinks you have something to hide as you hadn't told him about it before.

[Helen]

If there is nothing going on and he trusts you and vise versa then there shouldn't be an issue.

You should probably sit down and talk it through.

[unity]

If there is nothing going on and he trusts you and vise versa then there shouldn't be an issue.

You should probably sit down and talk it through.

Helen I agree with you 100%

[Pearl1979]

I agree, its about communication. And he is maybe insecure?? A lot of men are insecure about these types of things. Talk to him about it. Be up front....he obviously didn't know you were doing this, maybe that is why he was upset.

[cobden28]

Perhaps it would be better for the both of you if neither had any contact with your exes, especially now that you're married? I know that if I was in contact with any ex-boyfriends my husband would be hopping mad, as would I if things were reversed. But we've been married a long time now.

Why do you feel the need to be in contact with your ex., anyway?